The past few weeks have been very interesting. What I love about my life here is that it is so full of weird and wonderful encounters. Even after 3 years I come acros new challenges, meet new people and find new things to do. In fact, there are are so many things I want to do I never have the time to carry them all out. The hardest thing these days is to find a balance between travel, sports, hobbies, work and just quiet me-time.
Since I bought my bike, I have been trying to use it at much as possible, but since the days are getting shorter, I can only really use it in the weekends as I am a bit weary about racing around in the dark. Ive had a good few tours though. On the other hand, Ive almost completely given up on Kendo. The longer I stay away, the harder it is to come back.
Travelling has taken a back seat as I have hardly had the time to take weekends off of work. Autumn is the busiest season and there are so many events on the weekends that it's hard to find a weekend without anything planned. Okunchi is the main shinto festival in Hirado and I was part of the dragon dance team again this year. They wanted me to do the head as well, and even though I only had one time to practice the head position, it was a big honour to be able to dance in front of the city hall. Only the most experienced people do it, as it is extremely heavy and demanding but somehow I managed so I was pretty stoked about that.
For work I have had lots of requests from third parties asking for my participation at events or meetings. That's always nice since it allows me to get out of the office and do different stuff than normal. One of the things I was asked to do was to translate at a small gathering in the cafe in the harbour. 5 Dutch people were in Hirado as part of a government reconcilliation programme that invites children born from Japanese/Indonesion(or Dutch) parents in the war. Their stories are full of sadness and horrible events. Yet, with them coming to Japan and coming to terms with their childhood or finding out remaining pieces of the puzzle, there is something very meaningful and optimistic about their visit. Most of these stories were told in tears and it was hard for me, as a translator, to not shed a small tear listening to their heart wrenching stories and retelling them to the audience.
Today was another surprise event. A school from England came to our town for a short exchange programme as their city has historical ties with our city. Last year there was a large accident in our city in which a local fishing boat sank, drowning 12 out of the 22 on board. The English school raised money and send it to the families with letters of support. So with their visit here, the families came to say thanks to them. I didn't know about it and I was asked to translate on the spot. The families introduced themselves and each spoke a few words about the difficulties of living without their loved ones. Everyone was crying and some could not finish their words so this time I really couldnt resist a few tears. I somehow managed to keep myself under control pretty well and translate everything but it was another draining experience and a real contrast with the dragon dance festivities of the day before.
However all big happenings were eclipsed by the great news that my brother has asked his lovely girlfriend to marry him! I am so happy for them and excited about my brother getting married! It is strange that after having so many hostfamilies I will now also have real Japanese family! They will be a great husband and wife! Congratulations!
In the coming weeks I have various trips (both work and private), an exchange programme and lots of other work coming up so it looks like the busy times will continue into December. Life is definitely not boring at the moment!